Super defiant four year old.

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Re: Super defiant four year old.

Postby Marrow » 15 Sep 2016, 13:01

We missed the bus for swimming last week because of useless mass of inertia syndrome, which had the natural consequence that we had to trek across the park to catch a different bus. I am hoping that we will catch the one we intend to this week!
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Re: Super defiant four year old.

Postby ches » 15 Sep 2016, 18:49

I suggest the "drop in" technique. The further along a sequence you can "drop in" the more likely the child will complete the sequence without resistance. E.g. "Go brush your teeth please." <resistance> "Here is your toothbrush with toothpaste." <brush brush>

It's one part not dignifying the defiance with a reaction/setting a non-verbabl expectation of compliance, and one part capitalizing on our brains' liking of sequences and patterns.
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