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Baby brother is here! Announcement and birth story

PostPosted: 25 Sep 2015, 05:59
by MamaKh
I gave birth to a baby brother at 4 am yesterday morning. I don't exactly like giving birth but oh what feeling to wake up with him next to me today! He smells lovely and is so soft and warm, and little! 3150grams and 49 cm. Considering I BF big brother till 2y8m this is a new technic all together! He got his latch on right last night and seems to have gotten a taste for milk AND also be ok to let go when sleeping as long as he gets to be with me. :bsmile

Big brother was sooo happy and proud and protective. Wanted to hold, hug, kiss and caress. Decided on his own to give baby brother one of his teddy bears, and tcked it snugly into the container of his new truck, a perfect baby bed. He then decided to bring Teddy back home to take care of him. He was OK to leave us and not jealous at all (yet).

Birth story
Water broke at 4am and I had gone to bed at 2am :scream , contractions started at 10 am, check up at hospitalat1 pm, then back home, resting and EATING, back to hospital at 1 am. Open 4 cm, standing up intensified contractions and they were easier to take, but I was so tired! At one point his heartbeat were low and the midwife called for the doctor "search the doc Prio one, help me with sectio blood tests!" :scream but by the time the doc came LO was OK again. Pain relief with acupuncture and DH holding warm/hot rice bag on my back on every contraction. Had tried TENS at home but it just felt painful. At 3:50 open 8 cm as they put a new scalp electrode, LO having a hard time again and I was instructed to push on contractions, 14 min later he was out, unbelievable! (Pushed for 2,5 h w DS1, had epidural then). It was a boy! :bsmile He had pooed, explaining his low heart beats. I got him on my chest and DH cut the cord.
Weirdest part: When the midwife checked for tears I tried laughing gas /NO. Worked somewhat for pain but oh did it give me a trip! Totally lost motor function, and my vision stopped with a skipping picture of DH before my eyes as I could still hear everything and feel. When I could move (but not speak) I pointed at LO on my chest and shaped the words "watch the baby" several times to DH, I was afraid I would drop him being in that state. He got the message so I gave him thumbs up, all the time with this skipping picture before my eyes, gradually my functions came back, but vision was the last one. Apparently DH got it all on film. Only needed one stitch that was ok with a much lesser dose of NO.
I was offered epidural upon arrival, but I declined and I am happy and proud to and for my self that I managed without this time, as I wanted to be present for the whole experience this time, and equally happy my body did not need any inducing or stimulants this time. I did believe that I could "handle" (maybe survive is a better word) the pain and that my body could give birth on its own. So glad I was right and dared to try.

Hospital beds in general suck btw, and delivery beds specifically. So hard, and with a soft pelvis that is so uncomfortable!

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PostPosted: 25 Sep 2015, 07:41
by Fuz-Chan
Congratulations! Glad you got to have the birth you wanted!

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PostPosted: 25 Sep 2015, 08:15
by Cofa's Tree
Congratulations and welcome to the world little man! Thanks for sharing your story :D

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PostPosted: 25 Sep 2015, 09:05
by emzit
Congratulations! Enjoy your snuggles and well done.

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PostPosted: 25 Sep 2015, 11:51
by Marrow
Congratulations! Enjoy the warm snuggles.

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PostPosted: 25 Sep 2015, 12:32
by yorkshirepudding
Wow, well done! Congratulations to you all, hello little man.

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PostPosted: 25 Sep 2015, 12:43
by Treeb
Congrats! :bsmile

I totally agree on the terribleness of hospital beds. One of the main reasons I requested to leave a day early with A!

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PostPosted: 25 Sep 2015, 14:04
by lizandimo
Congratulations!!

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PostPosted: 25 Sep 2015, 15:18
by mamapup
Congratulations! Lovely to hear how great ds is being thus far too.

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PostPosted: 25 Sep 2015, 18:52
by qbm
Congratulations! Great birth story too :D Happy snuggles!

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PostPosted: 25 Sep 2015, 20:50
by MamaKh
emzit wrote:Congratulations! Enjoy your snuggles and well done.

This. Is. So. Wonderful.
I hear 3 is the new 2... this might be one reason why! They are this small such a short time! I understand this so much more this time around. Taking every chance to skin to skin, wich for some reason i didnt last time. What a rush!

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PostPosted: 25 Sep 2015, 21:08
by Tintin
Congrats! :bsmile

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PostPosted: 25 Sep 2015, 22:28
by LucyLastic
Aww, congratulations :-)

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PostPosted: 25 Sep 2015, 22:36
by UnhappyRightFoot
Wow! Lovely story!! So pleased that you had the birth you wanted! Good births definitely make you want more!!!

Enjoy your new baby snuggles and breathe in that beautiful smell!! I love new babies!!!

xxx

Re: Baby brother is here! Announcement and birth story

PostPosted: 26 Sep 2015, 06:44
by DandelionFrosting
Congratulations! And welcome to the new little one.