Koala is not coping with the arrival of junglebaby. Our sweet boy has turned into a tantrummy, toy throwing, floor peeing, grumpy nightmare. Yeah, yeah, I know all the stuff, spend 1:1 time with him when baby is asleep, involve him in baby's care, talk up being a brother, have special activities for feeding time. He is not interested in any of that and every suggestion or command is met with a no, unless it is watching tv or eating junk food (which obviously we are trying to limit, his behaviour is even more appalling after tv). It doesn't help that he started preschool a week before JB arrived. I need to spend more time with him but it's hard when the only time he wants me is when I'm feeding JB and he is so horrible I don't want to be around him.
How long will this last? How can I stop shouting at him? Help!