F was potty trained by the same age and I really want it done before he starts preschool in Sept. I am thinking about trying at the beginning of the summer holidays and then we have time to have another go at the end if it doesn't work out. He's been really good with our evening bare bum sessions and last night went from a different room/activity to find the potty. I have left him alone with the potty while putting the other two to bed and he uses it. Won't entertain the toilet though.
He's on the list for speech therapy. He does communicate a bit... I can just about make out 'oddy' (potty), wee-wee with a massive french style w and 'doo' (poo). No one else can make these out. He's good at saying water and will sometimes say this if something is coming. He's not reliable with verbal cues and ok if I watch him like a hawk (not really possible) so I think I have to just pray he will tell me when we are out and about, when the time comes. He is stubborn like his brother so when I suggest the potty and he doesn't need to go he refuses with violent throwing of the potty
and so I have stopped asking.