and all by myself!
anyhoo, so sorry about that, will see what Jem says when she gets back from where'er she has been gadding, but in the meantime we appear to be fixed. <crosses fingers>
for future reference, you can all moan at me here https://www.facebook.com/babyledweaning
if the site goes down. look how i am turning this into an opportunity to cadge more fb likes... you're no-one if you've not got a thou these days my pal at http://www.howbreastfeedingworks.com
(like her too, she is awesome).
anyway, a gazillion apologies, still don't know what happened, will find out and try to stop it happening again....