by busmother » 22 Sep 2014, 09:17
Right, I suppose I'd better bite the bullet and check in here! Never never never expected to be here, after 8 years trying before we had the buses through IVF. Of course they said we should think about contraception afterwards because it could still happen, and we decided that if it did, we could cope. I was secretly hoping it would, DH definitely felt two was enough, but a lot of time has moved on since then. I have got rid of all the baby stuff (ironically enough some of it in the last couple of months before the builders started, so I was probably already pregnant) and psychologically moved on. I feel completely normal which is why it took me so long to realise. I'm a bit clueless about these things, so if it wasn't that we'd been away at the beginning of July and I remember slight relief that it didn't matter that I'd forgotten to take my mooncup, and then definitely packing it the next time we went away, and definitely not unpacking it since, I really wouldn't have a clue how long it had been. Anyway, nice to see I'm in good company. Sure I'll get to grips with it all soon.
Mother to twin buses, born 2010, and number 3, born 2015